Hobbies: A Psychological Lifeline in this Global Pandemic

How many times in your life did you want to follow a whim or pursue a desire to try something new, but found yourself saying, “I have no time”. How many times did you find yourself doing what hamsters do, running on a wheel which kept on turning, no matter how much you wished it to stop or dreamed about what you would do if it did. This was so often the reason you probably gave yourself and others for not exploring or experimenting with something new. And, spare yourself from any guilt feeling about it: you were not to blame for this. Before this pandemic, our fast- paced western culture sadly did not allow it.

Now, with the world dealing with this global pandemic, and for many who have to stay at home, time is not anymore an issue: gone are our social commitments or usual outdoor commercial quick fix entertainment our culture has taught us to resort to. Now, perhaps more than ever, is the time to decide for a change and seize the opportunity to turn things around, and here is even more a reason why: because, for one thing, following these whims and pursuing these desires can save us from the flooding of anxious and fearful thoughts about Covid-19 which can paralyze our lives and our psyches during this time.

Fear is adaptive: it helps us to prepare ourselves for fight or flight from a threatening situation. We need to listen to it in reasonable measure to take the necessary precautions to take care of ourselves like not expose ourselves and each other to danger by respecting rules of social distancing and personal hygiene. But if these fearful thoughts constantly flood our psyches, they will paralyse us, create unbearable and uncontrollable psychological pain which in turn will ironically sabotage our lives and affect our immune system which right now is so precious to us to keep strong.

Since taking care of ourselves psychologically right now is crucial, there hasn’t been a more opportune moment to do all of this. Now is the time to follow those whims; now is the time to pursue those desires, practice our hobbies, experiment with new hobbies and find new passions. Why? Because hobbies and new passions have the most important purpose: they can occupy our mind with positive and healthy thoughts and feelings during this time.

When we follow a passion, we are completely in the present, in the NOW; we are fully in what we are doing and most importantly, our mind is still. Although in the previous moment, we might be flooded with anxious and fear provoking thoughts, if we practice a hobby we are passionate about, we will manage to quieten our mind, thoughts will fade away, our mind will fall still and we will feel at peace for a while; perhaps even excitement and exhilaration, because we are doing what we love. This is how our mind works.

True, probably we haven’t been prepared by our culture to do this. For example, we were more possibly trained to value our activity if we are being paid for it, or if it is going to lead us somewhere such as the activity of our work or career. But work will probably not fulfill this. Work can be in itself a source of stress since our sense of worth is so closely attached to it. Hobbies are different: we decide to pursue them freely, because we choose to do so and that is what makes all this difference in terms of how we will probably feel while we practice them. We are not on a test where we need to prove ourselves to anyone, (as we might feel it is at work), so we can feel free to play and to be. It is like what playing freely brings to children; a sense of joy from an experience of total freedom, an exhilaration from its creativity and an excitement that comes from new learning.

So start reading that book you always wanted; start taking that art class tutorial you’ve always dreamed to attend; start trying those yoga poses you have always wanted to integrate in your life; start playing around with that new musical instrument you bought and always wanted to learn but never had the time to; research that special recipe you have always wanted to work on and try it out.

Do it even more right now because it is something that we so importantly need to do for our emotional and psychological well-being. Let us see what we enjoy; let us learn how to do it. Let this be a time for us to invest in ourselves, to learn about our creative selves. Because It is a time, that if we dare to decide for it and venture out of our psychological comfort zone while we stay in the safety of our homes, it will most certainly turn around this time from one of crisis to one of real life changing opportunity.

This article also appeared in the Times of Malta: https://timesofmalta.com/articles/view/time-to-pursue-hobbies.789254

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